BettERR rEAD N LIKEE…

That night I couldn’t sleep. #Efforts#want#desire#belief. All the hashtags were in place. No news came next morning, one more night spend gazing the roof, nothing came even next morning and all the next mornings until year months after finally when I collected my peanut like pocket money for months but the dress got out of stock.
Life was real tougher when I was a kid if I compare it to kids life these days. But you know when you want something so truly you are ready to take a chance again in life. No not that dress, it was bigger and it was a lifetime thing. Somewhere believing, may be I lacked in my efforts that time or may be I doubted my belief ,but this time no doubts, pure dedication n I did …damn can you believe it? I actually wrote 132 pages but you know,  this world is a mean place to live, except for 7 people around me, all just refused to accept, they got jealous,and refused to take it…huh😡
Nothing spells luck more than a chain letter. Seriously, ever since I’ve got myself a phone, I have received numerous chain messages which have fulfilled all my desires. My dreams have come true with every forwarded message. Yes, I do have a Ferrari with Brad pitt sitting inside, it was airdropped on my terrace. Now I have got so much money, thats being  couriered to me that sometimes I use Rs.500 notes instead of toilet paper. I did miss out on forwarding one  msg though, and died, oops but then this friend of mine wished for me to come back to life 3 days later, so all’s well. I am all alive.

You must also realise how important these messages are. Read them, and make sure you forward. Otherwise, 9 years of bad luck will follow.

Ha ha ha ha

Religion has actually convinced people that there’s an invisible man living in the sky who watches everything you do, every minute of every day. And the invisible man has a special list of ten things he does not want you to do and a favourite list which he wants you to do. And if you do any of these forbidden ones, he has a special place, full of fire and smoke and burning and torture and anguish, where he will send you to live and suffer and burn and choke and scream and cry forever and ever ’till the end of time! And if you do other ones you will be showered with good things.
I really wonder how stupid it is, Really does he needs money! For what? He is full of miracles. Why people put money on idols, to please him, do they really feel they can buy blessings like this. He’s all-powerful, all-perfect, all-knowing, and all-wise, or is it may be somehow they feel he just can’t handle money and thus seek from his devotees. (extravagant may be he is)
Silly No? All in our heart know the truth, yet we do, or we see someone doing it in our families, putting coins in the name of god or is it a salary for the purohits.So say it loud if you agree to it, “your telling me that if I don’t share this picture forced upon me by your Facebook, whatsapp etc etc feed that I don’t love my mother, God, freedom, and peace?”
Well played Sir/ Mam well played sir/mam.
You are right and am ready for the consequences. I am not here to prove my love and get an oscar for it. Plz share it to 11 people if you are tired too of being facebook or whatsapp or any media to be a slave to share things…..
Kidding?
Now Really am I
Yeah
So when you receive one, coz I have seen people and specially new bees to mobiles, our respective parents, grand parents and kids my suggestion is to delete it. God’s blessings are not contingent on fear-based chain letters. These letters are nothing more than fear filled manipulation and superstitions. Believe in the power and true love of the creator. He will never behave like a stubborn egoist if you will not share such things.
Sorry I forgot to tell my 132 page blessing I was seeking admission in my favourite college, which I got but not in the subject which I wanted ‘coz my percentage was low… (blessings of 7 may be 😉).
Stay blessed. Keep smiling😊

Grow through what you go through… 

Recently while reading, an article grabbed all my attention. Its a theory by Sundar Pichai ( CEO Google), the man behind Google Chrome Browser. Maybe many of you would have read it but still I feel this is worth sharing. So here I am just exactly putting it in his words. 

“The Cockroach Theory for Self Development“.  It may change your perspective on a few things in your life so do give it a good thought.

At a restaurant, a cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and sat on a lady. She started screaming out of fear. With a panic stricken face and trembling voice, she started jumping, with both her hands desperately trying to get rid of the cockroach.

Her reaction was contagious, as everyone in her group also got panicky. The lady finally managed to push the cockroach away but …it landed on another lady in the group. Now, it was the turn of the other lady in the group to continue the drama.

The waiter rushed forward to their rescue. In the relay of throwing, the cockroach next fell upon the waiter.

The waiter stood firm, composed himself and observed the behavior of the cockroach on his shirt.
When he was confident enough, he grabbed it with his fingers and threw it out of the restaurant.

Sipping my coffee and watching the amusement, the antenna of my mind picked up a few thoughts and started wondering, was the cockroach responsible for their histrionic behavior?

If so, then why was the waiter not disturbed? He handled it near to perfection, without any chaos.

It is not the cockroach, but the inability of the ladies to handle the disturbance caused by the cockroach that disturbed the ladies.

I realized that, it is not the shouting of my father or my boss or my wife that disturbs me, but it’s my inability to handle the disturbances caused by their shouting that disturbs me. It’s not the traffic jams on the road that disturbs me, but my inability to handle the disturbance caused by the traffic jam that disturbs me.

More than the problem, it’s my reaction to the problem that creates chaos in my life.

Lessons learnt from the story: “Do not react in life. Always respond.“

The women reacted, whereas the waiter responded.

Reactions are always instinctive whereas responses are always well thought of, just and right to save a situation from going out of hands, to avoid cracks in relationship, to avoid taking decisions in anger, anxiety, stress or hurry.

 

Keep smiling😊😊😊😊

Finding friends with the same mental disorder… Priceless!!!

Now this one is my small dedication to my new world. Change is persistent. Change is the only constant. Change is inevitable. But Destiny can change the destination of the change. Yeah parivartan sansaar ka niyam hai, par bhagya ke aage bebas…  If you are destined to bear you will bear but maintaining the dignity,  only situation will change. Be the change in the situation. 

Actually I just woke one day and decided I didn’t  want to feel like that anymore ever again. So I changed just like that. Tired I realised,  old ways won’t  open new doors n I decided to not to knock them again. 

Remained in the silence of dark for quite a while, I ventured into a world of my words,  no approvals, no apprehensions,  just the freedom to be me,  talk me,  cry me,  feel me,  happy me I found me.” Hum yuhin akele chalte rahe aur kaarvaan badta gaya… “. Sometimes when you are in a dark place, you think you have been buried but actually you have been planted. Thankyou wordpress and all co’s for all the ears, all the time. Spread smiles. Keep alive… 

If it comes let it,  If it goes let it… 

Let go…. Small bunch of alphabets, carrying may be the biggest burden of lives. Learn let go, throughout the life you are trying stretch something that was not okay as per the first instinct. I somewhere disagree with it now. Let go is a burden,  you percieve or pretend but things always stays on the back of your mind and makes you untruthful to you.  Again a baggage to carry after an unwanted  thing in your life …Let gooo…. Urgghh. For who?  For them who caused you or for those who are actually not relevant.  Understand if letting go would have been easy, like it just takes a moment… then you really would not have held it that tightly enough. Be it a goal, a dream,  a life, a person or just anything you can think off, I believe you let go things a little by little. You let go then you hold back on but with a little force, until you fully freely release your true self. The more you tighten yourself to let go like in seconds, the more force you finally come out with. The deeper you dive,  the higher you feel yourself flying in waves. The weaker you feel, the stronger you will  become. Don’t  be ashamed of your weaknesses . We all have them. Just learn to be kind to yourself. What’s important is to understand  yourself. What’s important  is your belief in you. Don’t  be the judge of your actions,  you are not a bad person. Try and find difference between  your self worth and actions. To say you are a bad person is different  then saying you made a mistake. You can’t  fix yourself but you can always fix your mistake. Remember, no one is perfect on this earth,  yet unknowingly  few feel that. We all make mistakes.  We all fall at some point in our lives. We all have flaws.  But understand if not you. no-one else will do,  you need to look within yourself and treat yourselves as human who is worthy of respect and hope. Don’t  give up on yourself,  get back up. Don’t be the slave to someone’s  comfort zone where you will be criticized  if you will step out. Respect the individuality of you as well. Those who are true to you will understand you for what you are, not for what you can become for them.  If you want  to really let go something, then release the need to replay a negative  situation over and over again in your mind. Don’t  become a hostage to your past by always reviewing and reliving your mistakes.  Don’t remind yourself  of what should have, what could have or would have been. Release it and let it go first for yourself, move on. Be brave and be happy and if you still somewhere feel low n lonely, remember  ” Gita” you are born to live alone and die alone and you should respect the true self of yours the bare minimum, other then where you stand in “Who n Where’s s” life. Keep smiling.

“So come on let it go,

Just let it be

Why don’t  you be you

And I’ll be me

Everything  that’s broke

Leave it to the breeze

Why don’t  you be you

And I’ll be me…. ”